| Effective Emotional Lability is one of the words of the day. We had an appointment with Dr Little. Before I say anything else, I can't thank him (and "universe") enough for having him in Mom's and my lives. A huge example -- at the end of today, he took the lead this session and asked Mom for a hug! Perfection!!!! So, back to words. Today was certainly a day full of Emotional Lability -- throughout the day for me specifically -- very crazy-making E-Ticket ride all day long -- and I may not be off the ride yet . While at Dr Little, while trying to figure out Mom's memory level, and what is going on with her emotionally, so she could receive the proper Rx, if any, Dr Little determined that Mom has pretty much lost her "filter -- her ability to think before emoting etc. [to all who know her, this isn't new info...but usually Mom would explode with emotion, then it just went away......to her it didn't happen, but man, did the windows shake when she emoted (as did my heart/soul/being when in the crossfire)...but, the turn-off valve isn't working for Mom -- she doesn't even really know what is causing her to react, cry etc. but she emotes. Thus, the term "Emotional Lability". This was a toughie to find online -- but here's a pretty good description from what I read methinks:
Emotional Lability
One of the most disturbing aspects of working with a client may be his or her unpredictable loss of emotional control, also known as emotional lability. The client may laugh or cry at inappropriate times, swear or use incorrect terms for familiar objects. At first, emotional lability can be unsettling for the caregiver, but it is important the caregiver realize this behavior is not indicative of anger, sadness or joy. When emotional lability is exhibited, the best approach is to remain calm. After ascertaining the client is not in pain or physical distress, the caregiver should redirect the client's attention. This can be done by changing the subject of conversation, going outdoors or playing music. By interrupting the behavior, the caregiver assists the client in moving on to more productive activities.
Sound advice, but hard to put into action. My toes and fingers are crossed that I can get up enough energy and clear thinking to work this through with Mom. Peace
## [My heart goes out to the many who have been affected by "Katrina" -- may your recovery be swift and abundant...]
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